Hi, I’m Kim, thanks for being here.

What and why.

All my explorations into the unknown, messy as many might have been, helped me become acutely aware of the stuff within which we live. The living field around us and between us. It sustains our very existence yet usually goes unrecognized, unharnessed, and undermined, to our great detriment. We haven’t even been taught that it exists. Let alone how to tend it in a way that allows for our evolution. So now, all I want to do is get to know it better, and help others start their own relationship with it.

And, it’s my humble opinion that at this point in history, such journeying is no longer reserved for the mystics and wanderers. Things are changing more rapidly than ever before, and people sense the systems built to sustain us are faulting, and from this place we can seek new ways of doing things. This space between is where the future is being made. And we are the ones making it. So best we improve our vocabulary and arsenal for the encounter.

How.

While working with people under a clinical framework, I was very aware of the sacred space the container of therapy represented. The work, more than anything, taught me the importance of listening deeply, holding space ethically, and honouring the interdependent human complexity we all carry.

But there came a time when the container started feeling a bit too small for many people.

I foresaw this during my early research, from which I derived a therapeutical model of helping that positioned the therapist as co-creator, rather than expert or sympathizer. It was well embedded in theoretical and empirical data. But, if I’m honest, this knowing wasn’t something I was taught, or something I learned intellectually along the way, it was something I felt.

As a human being who has walked with people through grief, transformation, numbness, and awakening. As someone who has grappled, and is grappling with, these things for myself. As a mother and partner, who has faced off with rupture, repair, and grace in real-time high-stakes relationships. Something essential was being left out of our relationships - professional or otherwise. The soul. The nuance. The agency. The thread of aliveness that was asked to leave the room every time someone either looked to me for answers, or only wanted me to validate their pain.

I was being asked to act as an agent of transformation, yet I felt alone in protecting what was most pivotal in that process. Eventually, I recognized that what I’d been quietly, fiercely guarding all these years was my clients’ sovereignty. Tending it like a flame cupped in both hands, even when everyone around me, and often the client, was telling me to just blow it out and light a new one.

I realized that while people ached for relief, connection, and guidance, true healing didn’t lie in the next method, modality, supplement, guru, or relationship. It was in return to self-trust at the deepest possible level. A turning away from appearances, imitation, optimization, or efficiency, and a gentle easing back into the right upward flow of what is real. It’s not about being saved, but remembering you were never lost. I saw that what the world was really starving for was a deep ontological shift. A return to the natural rhythm of the soul, spirit, and psyche that knows itself as truly agentic and self-ripening.

So, I began experimenting. On showing up slightly differently. On lingering in the silences a little longer. I started relating, not just to clients, but to my world in general in this way. And everything shifted.

Here I offer the evolving culmination of that inquiry. The presence in form. Not as a lesser or greater alternative to traditional methodologies, but a deeper invitation into trust, regulation, and resonance, for those ready to answer that call.  

What I offer now is a relational paradigm. Because relationship is where the living intelligence dwells. We can't define, feel, or become ourselves without the contrast, reflection, and resonance that relationship provides. Yet we are not taught about this space between. The sacred third that isn’t me, isn’t you, but us. The space from which everything we encounter emerges. The space that’s always listening and talking back to us.

I aim to live, work, and think from this place. It’s a place between roles that’s part consulting, part witnessing, part pattern recognition, and a big part co-creation.

It’s a relational field for meaning-making and soul-tending. Where we follow what’s alive. I don’t show up as an expert but a reliable companion to what’s unfolding. I don’t promise answers. But I offer a field where what’s ready to emerge can be met with care.

You can expect reverence, compassion, and a deep sense of safety (and, dare I say, exaltation) extended to all those parts that, before now, have felt like they do not fit.

And I tell you what, it’s an exciting way to live, because it’s right.